Tuesday, June 17, 2008

Old Friends

We are in India.

While Summy has fun with her old friends, her grandparents, I had the chance to meet three of my own old friends. One of them, I had the luck to live close to for several recent years. I hadn't seen another of them in a long time. Another one, she remembered that the last time we had seen each other was twelve years ago. I was newly wed and was getting on a train to Mumbai and to my in-laws house, to go onward to the USA to study, and she was waving at me. Now they all have two kids each, most of whom I had read eagerly about but had never seen before.

They knew things about me and hadn't forgotten. When I faked knowledge of something, my old friend laughed and said, "I know she knows as much of it as I do (which was precious little)". There is no fooling old friends, and there is relief in not having to.

2 comments:

d said...

don't forget you have one more old friend. you have known her for almost 6 years now. she knows things about you and has'nt forgotten either. and she has 2 kids too. when are you going to meet her?

tara is coming here and staying with me! would be soooooo much fun if you come too...
love
d

Aparna said...

Yes, yes, d, I haven't forgotten. How could I?

I'm so glad you two can meet, and that she's staying with you. Maybe atleast the three of us can talk on the phone...